What do you do when your standards are exceptionally high and the men you attract never seem to hit the spot? Advice from friends and family is to chill and be a little more open… But honestly, the slip ups these men make are things they should really know about. These are boys, not men. If you were more open, those standards would slip. That is not an option. You’re here to have what you want. The whole damn package! The problem here is not openness, or lack of… Its not that you have unattainable standards in men… you’ve just got it very wrong about what you think is attractive to them. Because you’ve gotta remember that what works for your average man, isn’t something that works for the alpha gentleman you’ve got your sights on. The kind of man that scares you a little, the one who excites you and scares you in the same breath. They are VERY different markets. You also think what you want is hard to find and you over compensate for it. The more you don’t get what you want, the more tension rises, the more proof you have of how hard he is to find, the more you put effort into being better and better and better. More beautiful, more powerful, more strong, more admirable, more confidence, more fit, more hot, more iconic… The more you are energetically moving away from the alpha gent. This ’trying’ energy is a doing energy. And the more you try to be the sexiest, most desirable, most admirable thing he’s ever seen, the more you venture into masculine energy. And that alpha gentleman, the man-about-town you desire, the man who is a big deal, he can only be attracted to feminine energy. This does not mean you have to be girly and drop your standards, far from it. Feminine energy is very expressive, she declares what she wants. But its a RECEIVING energy. Its the opposite of trying. The good news with a real masculine man, is that he will hunt down the feminine… Boys, fuck boys, and feminine men need you to do some of the leg work to prove you like them. They need validation. Your alpha man, does not. He wants to do the leg work. He’s going to be the one that shows up for you because its in his nature to do so. I’d also hazard a guess that the men you currently date, you have zero emotional connection with, and the men you have genuine connection with, do not have an emotional connection to you. Why? Because you may be clear on the kind of man you want... But are you aware of what HE is looking for emotionally? Is this is alien to you? High value men have big emotional needs too just like you. Its what separates them from boys. And its why the men you want don’t connect to you. Because you don’t give them what they want…yet. Even though your beauty, your compassion and your strength is admirable to them. You don’t offer them what they deeply desire for themselves on a primal level. They have high standards too ya know. That’s why you want him. Your checklist of what needs to happen: - You’re going to need to let go of trying to impress him, that’s his job - You’re going to need to get a lot clearer on those emotional standards you have - You’re going to have to understand the complexities of male primal desire in order to activate his attraction for you …so that, you can become the energetic match specifically to the alpha gentleman you seek. The man you desire is not unattainable… You’ve just bought into the bullshit of what it takes to impress him. What you’re currently doing will work for your average Joe, but you aren’t here for that. You’re target audience is very different. I have a few VIP 1:1 spaces left to go through this work with. So if you have exceptionally high standards for your man… You have no desire for a 50/50 relationship… And you want to work with a woman who has the answers to the conundrums you face in dating, who has up-to-date advice on what it really takes to create deep attraction to masculine men, you don’t wanna hear anymore how you have to lower your standards, you want a woman to dream big with and go after the real man you’re here for… then private message me and tell me why this work is calling you and why now is the right time for you. Can’t wait to blow your damn mind with how wrong we’ve got attraction!
